Day eighteen – 9/29/11 Thursday


Today was my birthday. Thinking about this trip I didn't really think about my birthday abroad and what it might feel like. I mean it is just a birthday, and I am not a kid anymore.  But I feel a bit different here. I would love to be celebrating with my family by going out to eat like we usually do.  But this trip is about experiencing new and different things, and I will go out to eat a lot when I get home. It is these moments where change is hard, but not bad.  I envision Thanksgiving and Christmas to have a different feeling too.  But this experience is only until June and then I will have had the experience of a lifetime


Our second class was today.  More of the students attended than last time, but not a full class yet. As I understand the culture, in years past not attending class right away at the beginning was very common. This is changing some now.  My course is Teaching Young Learners, and will be taught in all English.  I really am impressed that 23 students have signed up for this English taught course- I think they are so brave! As a teacher I am worried about my speaking speed, or my use of idioms or using phrases that are difficult to understand. It will be interesting to see how I grow during this semester as well!


An hour after writing the first portion…..
Well to my surprise at the end of my day- I was walking back to my dorm room and there in front of me were Vesna (who had been in Skopje for work all afternoon) and Cassidy (another fulbrighter living in Skopje)!!!!  Those stinkers had surprised me!  It was so heart warming and exciting to see them walking up the sidewalk!  When Vesna went to Skopje for work she picked up Cassidy and brought her back.  We went to dinner together, at Bela Mia in Tetovo.  I have had on my list of “things to purchase” for a bit now, sheets for my extra bed.  I wanted to get them so that if I have guests they can sleep on the bed.  So it was off to the store to get sheets for Cassidy (great reason to buy sheets). Then it was ice cream for dessert!!  We followed dessert with an art show presented by LOJA a Non-Governmental Agency here that promotes peace and understanding. 
Orthodox Church by the restaurant
Birthday Dessert Ice Cream


















At dessert


The musicians at the art show


















One of the artist's hand carvings



One of the other artists displays- it was a silver color


































What a special birthday this was.  Is it like all of the others I have celebrated in the past, no. But will it always be one of the most special – yes. 

Lesson: Cassidy and Vesna are amazing!

Day 16 - 9/27/11 - Tuesday


My workday was not too eventful, still getting into the routine of classes for the students, and work for the professors.  I envision this to change in the coming weeks, and that I will have more to share about the differences and similarities of education between the countries, but for today I will comment on what I like just as much as teaching….  FOOD!

On Sunday, Vesna showed me yet another supermarket! I believe I already spoke about the experience and how I was able to get foods I could cook not just fruit and tomatoes.  Well I have to share one of those purchases- CHEESE:  It is a very tasty cheese, and she shared that is what her family usually eats.  I have now also fallen in love with it!  Before leaving Lincoln, I was eating a lot of goat cheese from the Farmers Markets in Lincoln.  This compares!  Now I should explain my thoughts here- it is not that I didn’t think or even wasn’t sure that the cheese here would be delicious, it is just great to know how to find it and purchase it on my own! 

I also have to show you the pizza I got tonight.  On my walk home from my adventure (explained more below) I decided to go back to Burekt Torre where I got the yummy pastries last week.  I was thinking the must have something I could put with my veggies at home… they had several kinds of pizza, which is a very common food item here.  The guy inside spoke English and I was so grateful – but I would have made do no matter what!  Rather than waiting while they made a pizza- I decided to get what they had prepared. He said, “one or two?”  I said, “two, thanks”  Well as you can see- their slices are not the same size!  Although it was not what I thought it would be in size- I was okay with having some extra!  I have to send a big THANK YOU  to my parents here.  Growing up we were always taught to try different foods even if we thought we wouldn’t like them, because “you never know when you will find your next favorite.”  Some people may have been a bit worried about the toppings on this pizza, and although they were not what I would typically order on my own, I knew I had to at least try it.  I think, after eating it it was pepperoni, salami, mushroom and artichokes; and it was very tasty!  Thanks mom and dad for helping me not be afraid to try new things!

Now to my adventure…  in packing I did pack sheets for my bed, and as it turned out it was very good that they were in my carry on bag.  I am also glad that I packed some. I think the University could have given me some to use, and I know I could have gone to purchase some, but it really was a worry I was glad I didn’t have.  HOWEVER I could not fit a comforter into my bags… instead I put my crochet hooks!  I had mentioned to Vesna that I would like to find yarn here to make my comforter for my bed, as well as other various things as the year progresses.  Today was our journey. After work we walked toward the city square, and met her mother at a yarn shop. It was about 2km from campus. This shop had many selections in yarn, none of them as large as  I tend to buy at home, but many different types and colors!  I purchased red and a yellowish color- Vesna knew exactly what I was doing- Macedonia colors!  I decided if I was going to make a blanket here, it should represent the country.   Although I do not yet speak or understand Macedonian, I could communicate enough to share that I was crocheting and no knitting.  I also agreed with her mother that we would have to sit and work on our projects sometime together!  So tonight I will start – I am very excited!

Lesson: Finding a hobby for the lonely times can make a huge difference.

Day 15 - 9/26/11 Monday


Today was another work day- I was working on preparations for class on Thursday- I have to admit I forgot how tiring reading articles can really be… It is amazing how sitting without moving while reading can put a person to sleep.  It was a good reminder lesson for what NOT to do when teaching!

Tonight I was invited to the Reception for the new ambassador to Macedonia.  Daniel, Cassidy and Vesna and I went together.  It was at the Deputy Chief of Mission’s home in Skopje.  It was a typical social get together, with waiters walking around and a variety of finger foods available for consumption.  We were also able to meet many people from the area from the sectors of journalism, arts, and education.  It was a really enjoyable evening!

Vesna and I outside the DCM's home at the reception

Cassidy, Vesna and I at the reception

Lesson: Be who you are no matter what your title or place in life.

Day 14 - 9/25/11 Sunday


Walked 2.5km today to the city center and the American Corner. There was a chess tournament going on!  On my journey I was able to take the first pictures of the Colored Mosque and the Pena River.  I want to go back to the Colored Mosque to look around, but thought I better take a picture of the outside to share with you all. 
Colored Mosque

Pena River

















Upon arrival at the American Corner I was able to meet 3 peace corps volunteers.  This was the first outside and open-air tournament they have ever done. It was a really amazing set up. I took a picture!  I spoke with the two people who work at the American Corner and we will set up a time in the near future to make some plans for how I can assist them!

The tournament
The American Corner - Tetovo


























Later in the day Vesna and I went to the store again. This time I got items that I can actually cook with!  Balsamic Vinegar, Olive oil, seasonings, and then bread and vegetables too!  I was so excited about the purchases!  I can try and cook now!!!

Tonight brought my first taste of Avjar!!!  Thank you Vesna’s family for sharing it with me. I ate it on bread, and I LOVED IT!!!  I am already thinking of how to make it when I get home!



Lesson: Be open for learning in all situations.

Day 13 - 9/24/11 Saturday

Adventure day!
Today Vesna was going to Skopje for work and asked if I would like to ride along. I of course accepted the invitation!  I met Cassidy and we went exploring through Skopje.  Our first stop was the old train station, which is now a museum and art gallery.  Upstairs was the art gallery portion. Her is a picture of one of the displays. This artist took pictures from the inside of a mental institution looking out the windows, she then placed the photographs on top of these lit boxes.  Very neat, but also a bit sad; but I guess that is what art does, exposes emotion.
Art Exhibits upstairs
In the other part of the station, was the museum portion. One part was the history of Skopje, with pictures and artifacts.  Then downstairs were the older artifacts from thousands of years ago.  Here is a picture of that area as well.
Museum downstairs old train station
After leaving the old train station, we were about to cross the street when a woman stopped us saying, “Welcome to Macedonia, we are so glad that you are here visiting.” We proceeded to have a conversation.  It was so nice of this woman to say something to us, and she was very kind, but Cassidy and I decided we must really stick out for her to have just been so sure we weren’t from there!
    Walking north from the train station is a very wide sidewalk, like a road that has been turned into a walk-way.  Today was the 100-year anniversary celebration.  There were people all around the area, horse drawn carriages, people in dress from different periods over the past 100 years, bands, and did I mention people?  Here is a picture of the walk filled with people.
Street view of 100th anniversary celebration

We then got to se the Memorial House of Mother Teresa.  Mother Teresa was born in Skopje, but her original house was torn down but the spot where it was is marked in the ground and there is a plaque. Here are the photos of the memorial house and the original location of the house.
Mother Teresa Memorial House
Memorial House
Plaque at Mother Teresa's original home
Markers where her house stood
Our next journey took us to the city center where I got to see the Warrior on a Horse Statue in daylight not rain!  There are fountains all around it, and lights that come shining down from under the upper level in different colors. The statue was just unveiled on Macedonia’s independence day on September 8th, so there are still many people coming to take their picture in front of it.  
Warrior on a Horse
Me in front of Warrior on a Horse
Next came lunch- I had Mediterranean Spaghetti (olive oil and pesto) and Cassidy and I shared the famous cheese fries (it is a feta cheese) the dip that came with it was so tasty- I am going to have to figure out how to create it back in the states!  It is like a little bit spicy ketchup like with red pepper spice.  I am GOING to figure it out exactly though.  I also wanted to post a picture of my drink- Diet Coke Light. I post it not only because of the difference in the name, but to also show something common here in Macedonia (and probably many other places too) all beverages, except tap water, are served from glass bottles! 
From lunch we walked across the stone bridge, and the Vardar River  to an old Turkish Bath that has been turned into an art museum. I took some pictures of the outside, and then inside, including the amazing ceilings!  The artwork inside was very old, and amazing to see. But I really enjoyed seeing the architecture!
Stone Bridge
Vardar River
In the Turkish Bath - now art museum
The ceiling of the museum
We proceeded to the Old Bit Bazaar area. I took some pictures of the side streets. The streets wound all around and there were little shops and restaurants all along.  I found a neat hand painted cup that I am going to use here to hold “stuff” in my room and then I will bring it home as a great memory. It was a lot of fun walking around and seeing all of the people on the streets, in the shops, and at the cafés.  Cassidy, Erin and I also got a tea with one of the shop owners. It was a lot of fun to be with a local at a local café!!  The teas are very small, and many people put sugar in it. I chose to only squeeze a bit of lemon.   After tea we stopped for my first Boza.  It is fermented flower drink, but we had blueberries juice added to ours. It was a really refreshing and tasty treat!  
Side Streets
Side Streets
Side Streets
Boza
Walking back over Stone Bridge- view of Warrior on a Horse
It was an awesome day! And after our adventures, I met back up with Vesna for what became the most “practical” part of my journey to Skopje!  We stopped at the mall and went to Jambo- where I got kitchen towels, silverware, plates, bowls, a bowl for doing my laundry in the sink, and a container to take fruit with me to work!  I actually have REAL stuff for my cupboards at the dorm.  WOW!!!!
Lesson: Listen to the people and don’t just take what you see for granted.

Day 12 - 9/23/11 Friday


TGIF :)  This  morning brought finishing the course packet for the students.  It has been quite a feat to get it completed since my resources only arrived at the embassy today.  That brings me to my exciting news- my diplomatic pouches arrived at the Embassy!  I am really excited to have all of the resources and “goods” that I sent in them.  It will be a bit like Christmas… what’s in the box??? 

I had another “first experience” today.  The Rector of the University spoke to the staff today.  Upon walking in, you could take headphones to use during the speech…there were actually translators in the lecture hall!  The headphones transmitted both Macedonian and English translations. It was like you see in the movies where they show the United Nations and people are listening to the speakers in their native languages.  Here is a picture of Vesna and I with our headphones on!



We also attended training today for some new technology that the Language Center is going to be using.  It is called an Ebeam; and it makes a projection on a whiteboard that becomes interactive.  It is really cool technology and I think it will really enhance the education provided! That’s about it for today… its off to Skopje again tomorrow, hopefully it will be sunny so I can get some pictures!

Day eleven – 9/22/11 Thursday


Today was my first day with students!  The culture of universities is a bit different here. Although class started this week, it was likely that some students would not come yet this week.  We had 11/20…which I thought was pretty good.  The course is Teaching Young Learners.  The university use to be veered more towards teacher training, but in recent years it has become more of a literature university.  There is some discussion about possibly offering more courses in teacher training again.  Knowing this I am a bit inspired!  My passion is teaching, so knowing that excites me.   We played the game 2 truth and 1 lie for a way to get to know each other.  Our class meets only once a week for 2 hours, so more to come next week with the challenges and joys of teaching yet a different group of students!

After work I stepped outside of my comfort zone a bit.  I have been needing to do this, so I was really proud of myself.  Like the other day after work, I again walked with Vesna after work, stopped and picked up Burek (meat this time) and then we went our separate ways. This time I decided to stop at a pastry shop.  The real purpose was two fold, first, do something on my own without a native speaker, and two get my self some more bread to eat all of the yummy treats from Vesna’s family.  I went to Burektore which has a wonderful reputation here in Tetovo.  The people inside were so nice, even paring me with the best English speaker!  I got a small loaf of bread and then a cheese pastry/bread.  I tasted the cheese one right when I got home, because it was still warm- it was SO good!  I was pretty proud of my outing and the hunting and gathering I did all on my own. 

I really have realized this past week that I am a people person. I knew this before, but I guess I didn’t realize to what extent.  I really enjoy being with people, and talking with people.  This journey I am on will be so good for me so that I can learn to be okay when I have alone time; and maybe not just okay- but also enjoy it!

Lesson:  Going out and doing something you were at first concerned about doing on  your own, feels really good!

Day 10 - 9/21/11 - Wednesday


Day ten – 9/21/11 Wednesday

The Fulbrighters got to go to the US Embassy today!  We took a taxi from the apartment to the embassy across the river.  We of course had to go through security checks to get inside, but it was not a difficult process.  One of the first things said to us after the security check was, “welcome home” which made me smile because I had not really thought about it being home, but it was, it was US soil.  The meetings were very informative and it was good to meet the individuals at our meetings! Having never been abroad, I feel like a sponge just starving for information.  I ask so many questions and am constantly having to process so much new information. 

After the meeting and lunch, we went out for dessert with Daniel and his family.  What a wonderful family they have.  It was fun to spend time as a group of Fulbrighters in Macedonia!

I am not sure I have mentioned Ramstore yet- it is a store like a Wal-Mart with things from food, to bath products to house hold items.  It is not quite as big but bigger than the Vero I had been too.  Here at ramstore I found: socks to keep my feet warm since it had rained so much, peanut butter, and all this gum!!!
All Orbit!  the cost is 24 denar;  1 dollar = around 43 denar

Heading back to Tetovo, I was able to ride with a friend of my friends in Skopje. She actually is from Tetovo, and I discovered she is also a professor at SEE-U.  We had a great conversation on our drive back to Tetovo-home.   

I really enjoyed getting to be in Skopje, not only to see the city, but also to be with friends from before this journey went overseas.  We were able to start talking about plans for coming trips to see the country!  VERY exciting!!!

Lesson:  Staying up late can help you learn some valuable lessons on the internet!

Day 9 - 9/20/11 - Tuesday


Work was work today- I really don’t want to take the time to say more about this since I will be working everyday!  Instead I want to share about other events through the day.  …

For lunch one of my co-workers from the Language Center asked if I wanted to go out. I of course said yes!  We drove towards the city center, but not all the way to the square and then went off the main road a few blocks.  It was a great little restaurant!  I am really impressed with all of the restaurants and how unique each of them is on the inside!  During lunch I looked outside, and there were 3 goats walking down the street…. Not something you see very often back home!  I didn’t get a picture though. Sorry!
Skopje City Square

After work it was off to Skopje to meet up with my other Fulbright friends to spend the night. We have a meeting in the morning at the US Embassy.  Unfortunately it is very rainy so it is not great for pictures, but I still took some!   


Another statue in the square






Lizzie and I in the rain near the city center









Warrior on a Horse in the City Square- Skopje


Looking towards the old train station

We actually went to dinner at a Mexican restaurant!!!   It is the only one in the city and it is called Amigos… but not like our Amigos… more like a Mazatlan or El Torro. However, there were no complimentary chips served.  Oh well…

The greatest challenge I was looking forward to today was transportation.  The original plan was to take what is called a combi from the university into Skopje, which is about 40 km away. (similar to going between Lincoln and Omaha, but a bit shorter and with tolls)  The combi’s are vans that are run by private companies. They wait in designated areas, and then wait to be full, and then drive the people that have gotten on between the two cities.  It is cheaper than taking a taxi and can be more convenient than a bus- if you know what you are doing which I didn’t….  Anyway I was going to ride it with the dean from my faculty and he was going to show me how to get along so I knew for next time.  As it turned out we got a ride with another university employee- there are many people that drive back and forth.   This lesson will have to be for another day.  But at least I have now traveled to the city and have a better understanding of where my friends are, and how to get there.  The combi lesson will have to be for another day…

Lesson:  Toms brand shoes dry… maybe not in less than 12 hours, but they dry!
 

Day 8 - 9/19/11 Monday



Today brought the first day of classes at SEE-University.  There were more students on campus and people walking around.  It felt more like the campus had a life than it has, I say this because that is what campus’ should be- a place of life, creativity and learning. I did not leave the Language Center at all during the day today- I was busy meeting with people and getting more figured out for my class I will be teaching; Teaching Young Learners.  This will be a new endeavor for me since I have not taught at a university level before.  But like I shared the other day, “She Believed She Could, So She Did!”

After work I walked with Vesna on her way home.  She showed me a new place to have Burek! She helped me order – which I am so appreciative of right now!  I then walked south to the University and she walked north to home.  I stopped at a little market to purchase some water- I feel like I just can’t have enough water here with me.  The store clerk and I had no common language, even though he did his best trying Albanian, Macedonian, German and even said goodbye in French, I responded with a thank you in Spanish, I felt it was only appropriate.  I have had several moments where I have felt humbled in the past week.  As Americans we learn English and dabble in another language in high school and maybe college, that is unless we take an initiative on our own.  But for most of us in America, we are single language speakers.  The people I have come in contact with so far speak at least 3 if not 5 languages.  It is truly amazing to me!

 












When I arrived back to my dorm, my flat mate asked if I would like to go for a walk. I decided that it would be good for me, and give me a chance to see more.  We hiked up the side of the mountain or hill.  I think they are mountains but many people who live here call them hills.  Now that I have walked up part of one, they are mountains!!







I did not continue the whole way- I am not in the right shape or condition yet. I will keep trying through. I think some of it was the altitude, I just couldn’t catch my breath. But to be honest some if it is that I just haven’t done that kind of exercise! The view was all worth it.  These pictures are looking to the Southeast.  Far in the distance you can see the University.  I also saw an old house on the side of the mountain that no one lived in any more, but it was a neat picture.

 













Lesson:  Take a risk to see what beauty your new backyard can offer.