Day 7- 9/18/11 Sunday


 This morning brought watching Huskers online. Thanks to mom and dad for the birthday present of the BigTen Ticket online service which is the international way to watch Big10 Games!!! Since the game was aired on ABC, I didn’t have access to it until midnight eastern time, so I watched it when I woke up!  It was a good Sunday morning!!

Vesna came at 3:30 to pick me up for coffee.  We went to Madison Lounge, the same place we had gone to coffee the day before. I love the atmosphere there!  




 
 I didn’t realize that tonight was the Macedonian Basketball game!  Macedonia came to the European Championships pretty much un-known I believe or at the very least not expected to get anywhere in the tournament.  However they made it all the way to the semi-finals on Friday night, but lost to Spain.  Tonight’s game was the bronze medal game against Russia.  It was so much fun to be around the people of Macedonia as they all rallied around their team!!   
(my view on the right)


Macedonia did not win unfortunately, but the fans began a parade of singing and chanting throughout the streets of Tetovo.  They were covered in paint, flags, and anything that had the Macedonian colors of Red and Yellow.  It really brought a smile to my face to see a country get to come together around their sports team.  I read a NYTimes article about their “star player” Bo McCalebb who is originally and American.  Here is a quote from the article, you should know they call Bo, Borche in Macedonia J. “Borche and the players have positioned us shoulder to shoulder with giant nations and have shown us that Macedonia is a great nation,” Georgi Filipovski, an information technology specialist from Skopje, said in a telephone interview. “They wiped out our inferiority complex about being losers from a small, insignificant country.” (NY Times, Sept 15, 2011)
 
 
















 







Following the game, we walked to get some really tasty ice cream!  There were several flavors, I had hazelnut and caramel dipped with a bit of chocolate and hazelnuts on top. It was different than ice cream I have eaten before, it was more creamy and not as frozen tasting… if that makes sense at all.  It was a bit breezy so I of course got a piece of my hair in my ice cream and then it streaked across my glasses…I can’t even be cool in a far distant land!  As my dad would say: “Way to go Grace”.







Lesson: There is an awesome power and feeling when a group of people can come together for a similar cause!

Day Six- Saturday 9/17/11


I have experienced a great deal more about the life of Tetovo today!!   My new friend Vesna, took me “out on the town”.  For this adventure I decided to go ahead and try to wear a pair of my shoes that were better for walking, even though the blisters from the boots have not quite healed. I can tell you now that it was a good choice. The blisters on the heels were all good, and the cushion felt good to the ones on the bottom of my foot!!

The day started with Vesna arriving on campus to pick me up.  She had a bag in her hand… it was filled with home-made treasures!  She brought two types of jam made by her mother and two jars of Ajvar- which is a traditional roasted red pepper spread.  During the month of September, Macedonians (and others around the Balkans) hang red peppers outside of their homes getting ready to make Ajvar.  Making the recipe is something that many families do together.  After roasting, peeling, grinding, and cooking it like a stew (with other ingredients) they then put the spread into jars to be enjoyed throughout the winter.   I am so excited to try each of the jars!! 



It was off to the American Corner in Tetovo next!  American Corners are not just in Macedonia.  The idea of the “American Corner” started with the US Department of state as an initiative started worldwide over 10 years ago.  It is a library style resource center that is in over 365 communities around the world. It is open to the public and is to be a resource to provide understanding between the United States and the people of the community that it is in.  There are resources, seminars, internet access, language courses, exhibits, video conferencing and many other resources.  I am planning on spending time at the corner here in Tetovo.  It was great to see where it is located, as well as meet one of the volunteers. Pictures to come when I go again.

We then proceeded to coffee, sorry I didn’t take a picture of the location, but I am sure we will go there again.  We again got to sit out on a patio area. This time I tried a Macchiato; it is my new favorite for sure!  I like my coffee dark and straight, and so far I have been drinking coffees with more things added to them.   Although it was not straight black, it was really yummy- I am learning so much :)

After coffee we drove to a village outside of Tetovo called Sirichino that is along the Vardar River.  Driving there was an experience as well because we had to drive a curvy road on a hillside. I say it was an experience not because Vesna didn’t do a wonderful job driving, but because it is not like something we have in Nebraska.  The roads that are not a highway are narrower than they are in the US, but most of the cars are tinier as well :)   We ate at Delfina which sat right on the river and was AMAZING!  I have not had any food yet that I have not enjoyed, but this was really awesome!   Check out the pictures- SO MUCH YUMMY FETA!!!!  You see a Shopska salad (tomatoes, cucumbers), grilled bread with feta, and french fries with feta.  We also each had a meat dish.  I had a skewer of pork and Vesna had the hamburger similar to what I had the other night only with cheese…yum!











Following the amazing lunch we went to Vero, a store with groceries and other needs- similar to a Walmart, but much smaller!  Here Vesna assisted me in purchasing items that have made me feel like a REALY human.  On my first trip to Vero, I was not as successful by myself. She helped me find lotion, hair conditioner, antiseptic band-aids for my blisters, paper for curtains in my room, red nail polish since mine didn’t make the cut at the security check (as you might remember I had too many liquids)   and the list goes on and on!!!  I really would not have been able to find all of the great stuff I did without her help! THANKS VESNA!!!

This evening also brought laundry for the first time.  All by hand thank you very much!


 I also hung up my curtains!  I also have tape on the bottom so I can tape them open as well!  Its starting to get more colorful in here!!



Lesson Learned: She believed she could so she did.

Day 5 - Friday 9/16/11


Today started with making some tea on the burner for the first time. Since I had to boil the water it was too hot to drink it all, so I decided to put it in the fridge and have cool tea later!  Once at the LC (Lang Center) Vesna, the Deputy Director for Academic Affairs in the Language Center, and I decided to go and “get a coffee”.  That is how it is said in English here.  We had wonderful conversation talking about our past experiences and what we want to do in the future.  She also offered to take me out shopping tomorrow as well as to the American Corner here in Tetovo.   She also shared with me a pastry from one of the shops near campus- I will plan on walking there sometime soon!


I met with the Provost of the university today to talk about expectations and how the university became and what it is today.  After our talk he took me to the  balcony of the Administration Building on campus- here is the view!




Today also brought the final step of registering with the police. I now have a card that says the police know that I am in the country.  I feel much better having the card with me, although I understand it to be rare for someone to want to see it.  This meant riding in my first taxi with Bujar.  It also meant seeing part of Tetovo off of the main street.  It was a good experience!


 On the way back to my dorm I picked a couple apples from the beautiful apple orchards. They are so yummy. All the food here has so much flavor because it is all fresh!!

This evening I was able to subscribe to the BigTenTicket which is the international way to watch big 10 football!!  Thanks mom and dad for the early birthday present!!! GO BIG RED!


Lesson: It is amazing what a difference a day with good conversation can make!

Day 4


PRODUCTIVE DAY!!!!

To start I have luggage!  You never know when luggage goes missing if you will see it again. It always assumed that you will, but you really don’t ever know for sure, until you sign the piece of paper saying, ‘yes those are mine’.   This was a huge step in starting to feel like this will be my home away from home.

Next I was able to get an international mobile phone. Now for those of you who may have thought- cool I can call Jen.  Sorry no. It has limited minutes and would cost you and I a fortune. It is for local calls only. I am hoping it helps with making connections with people so that I can start exploring!  Going to get the phone we walked quite a distance. This has caused blisters numbers 4 and 5… in hopes to heal the blisters on the backs of my heels, I was wearing flip-flops with solid plastic covered bottoms.  Unfortunately it turned out to be a not so good situation.  I MUST REST MY FEET J However, I did get to take some pictures of the city while walking.





If luggage and a phone weren’t enough, I also got my personal computer working thank you to the computer genius guy here on campus!  He was so awesome; he even came to my dorm to get it running!  This brought the first phone call home, which was VERY needed.

Lesson: Knowing the right people really can help you get things accomplished.

Day 3


Day three: 9/14/11

I woke up (thanks to my flat mate agreeing to knock on my door, since I have nothing with a clock).  I had half of my sandwich from the plane and my apple. It’s a good thing I took those with me! I still did not yet have money to buy food.  I went over to the Language Center and met the dean, we went for a coffee and to make a list of things I wanted to be SURE we got done during the day. It was quite a list but I hoped do-able.   We first stared by getting the dean’s assistant the airport information again so he could check on my bags. Then we went back to the language center and met with the Department Head of English we discussed courses I may teach.  As of right now it sounds like I will co-teach a young learners course, help by doing some lessons in the writing courses, and then work with several of the different instructors and classes as they want a native speaker!  I shared that I would be interested in starting and English club for students so they can participate in my pen pal project. I met an individual who has started several extracurricular clubs here at the university before so as the time comes he can assist me in setting it up.  The dean sent some emails to get me a SEE-U email account and the ability to log on to computers on campus!  Around noon, the same man took me to the city center to exchange money and go shopping.  I felt very vulnerable on this journey as I would not have been successful without him!  He asked the questions for me, told me how much things were when I couldn’t see the register screen etc. I know that I need to learn the language- but this really pointed out to me how quickly I need to do that if I want any sort of successful independence.  On the shopping outing I got Band-Aids for the blisters, towels, soap, shampoo (there was no conditioner) hangers, apples and oranges.  Granola bars or the like did not seem to exist. I will have to see if fruit will be enough for breakfast with my new eating habits. 

All in all, we got MUCH of my list of needs done for the day.  Tomorrow should bring configuring of my computer so I can use it in my dorm and a mobile number J 

The evening brought dinner with one of the other professors in the department who is , from Scotland. It was nice to have a plan for dinner as I don’t yet know what else to do for evening meals… I mean I could go to a restaurant, but as of now that would have to be alone, and I can’t order.

Lesson: Start learning numbers in Albanian or you are in trouble!

Days 1 and 2 in this journey


Arrival in Skopje at Alexander the Great Airport-  All of my flights were very good in the sense that the flight attendants were very nice, there was not so much turbulence that people around me were unable to hold down their last meal, and the people next to me were more annoyed at other folks on the plane than I was!  I really couldn’t ask for more! 

First flight from Lincoln, they had actually overbooked my flight by 1 and I was the lucky 1.  Most people might fret over this but the nice guy behind the counter shared that there was a flight from Lincoln that I would take to Chicago and then go straight to Dulles rather than my current flights that included a stop in Pittsburgh between Chicago and DC.  I really thought that it would be great to have that work out, it would mean a few more hours with mom and dad, and no extra stop.  But the 1 person needed didn’t show up so I was on.  While going through security I had to reduce the number of liquids that I brought with me. This was a surreal moment of choices… the volume spray for my hair and nail polish were the first to go. For some reason I heard in my head my mother’s voice: ‘this isn’t a beauty contest’   It was a moment I did not plan for 1. They actually did the “pick up” test for my luggage and say, “feels good to me” and 2. I had over packed my liquids in my carry-on!!  As Cass said: “Who would have thought!”

In Chicago my flight to Pittsburgh was delayed so it was off to a ticket counter to see what they could do.  A very nice woman named Sue who worked at a United counter helped me switch my flight straight to Washington DC Dulles.  She even called down to a REAL PERSON and explained my bags to the person on the other end so that they would get switched to the correct flight. THANK YOU SUE!  This meant that I had 20 min to travel to another terminal. Sue explained to me how to get there and wished me luck and blessings on my year abroad.  This journey across Chicago’s airport meant two flights of stairs. Mind you, I have on winter boots, am carrying my winter jacket, my stylish carry-on from the Hemmingsens we will call it the ‘cute one’, and the ‘green monster’. I also get flustered in situations where people are behind me…and there was a line of people!  I dragged at first then the cute one fell to the side, and it wasn’t fully zipped (because it was too full). Then I was dragging my winter coat… I felt like a horrible skit on Saturday Night Live, grunting individuals behind me and all.  It was a stressful 15 min, but I made it in time.  By the time I was getting on the plane, I was so hot my face was red.  Luckily I sat by a really nice guy who was actually from Omaha! He immediately saw me coming towards his seat (I sat in the middle of three) and offered to help me lift my green carry on bag that had nearly as much weight as my real luggage, up to the overhead compartment. This could be because I looked like a disaster!  It was nice to have someone for good conversation!  When we landed he also took the green monster down out of the overhead and pulled it all the way off of the plane for me!  He was such a nice guy!!

I got to Dulles with no problems carry-on LUGGAGE and all. I found a bagel shop and got a Philly sandwich, feeling very American in my choice. I sat down and called Cass and my mom one last time.  Side note: It was hard to decide if I should take my cell phone since it would only work that first day of travel, but mom and dad thought it was a good choice, and I couldn’t agree more. Having my mom available to talk was priceless!   I do want to say one opinion I have about the travel in Dulles. It is a very spread out Airport, very clean and well marked, however if flying through you will want to try and not have a short lay over.  I took a Bus that looked a bit like something from an alien movie because it was bus shaped on top, but was very tall with huge wheels so that it was the height of the airport, then walked down two escalators, got on a shuttle, then two more escalators before arriving in the correct terminal.  If I had less time, I would have been in a world of hurt. Austrian Airlines has a policy that your carry-on bags must weigh less than 17lbs, and fit into this little space, they were having people measure and weigh and if they didn’t fit the requirements they had to be checked at no charge.  Obviously the green monster did not fit J  However I lucked out because I am not sure the cute one would have met the weight requirement but they counted it as “a laptop bag or purse”  (Thanks Hemmingsens!!!)  At 4:45pm (east coast time) boarding began on the Austrian Airlines flight to Vienna. It was goodbye America…


On the plane, I sat by a woman that would say fate placed me beside. Her first comment was: “Oh good, you never know who you might have to sit by on these long flights.”  It was comforting to have such a warm individual to sit beside.  We immediately began talking about our journeys. She was on the way to visit a friend for a vacation.  But here is the really awesome part: she has a son with a behavior disorder, and she herself worked as a para educator the past year for a student with autism! It was pretty amazing to get to sit and talk with her.  I watched “Water for Elephants” and really enjoyed it. Then was dinner, pasta or chicken, I had pasta. You could choose ANY beverage that you wanted. I had water knowing that at this point hydration was important. The flight attendants were all very friendly. They wore husker red and teal ties or scarves.  Sleep was difficult even with my wonderful neck pillow but overall it was a good flight.  I also realized that the winter boots that I had not yet worn, were a bad choice… and I could feel blisters.  For weight issues it was good to wear them, I just should have worn them in first or worn socks.  Oh the lessons in traveling!  On the flight breakfast was also served, we had yogurt an apple, and a ham and cheese sandwich. I was not too hungry so I saved he sandwich and apple. (another good lesson I learned- it’s okay to take your food that has been given to you on an aircraft, because you never know what tomorrow brings.)





I arrived at Vienna International Airport  at about 8:30am – Vienna time (1:30am Nebraska time).  I had to go through a passport station- I GOT MY FIRST PASSPORT STAMP!!!!!  The Vienna airport is much like a Vegas hotel with shops all along the corridors.  It was amazing, toys, clothes, bags, sunglasses, fragrances, more clothes, more bags… it was amazing!  They also had a Starbucks.  I decided to not purchase any coffee but instead fill my water bottle.  At the Vienna airport there is a little trick I must share: don’t buy liquid and then go to your gate, you have to go back through security.  They let me pour out my water in the trash. However a really great thing at this point was I didn’t have to take off my shoes.  I knew that my feet were swollen and I was afraid of getting them off but especially getting them back on over the blisters!  Also you go through another passport check and get another  passport stamp J I had a window seat on this flight and I was really excited!  I took a few pictures as we took off, but my eyes quickly won… I couldn’t keep them open. I dosed off for maybe 10-15 minutes long enough to have been passed for a snack L but not for a water!  We then began our decent into Skopje, I took some pictures before our smooth landing at 11:30am local time (4:30am Nebraska time)




Upon arrival you go through a passport check, THIRD STAMP!! She asked where I was going, but that was all. Baggage claim was right behind the passport check.  I knew there was a chance that my luggage had not arrived, since I had switched flights, but I still hoped!  I waited and waited watching all of the people pull their luggage off of the track….waited and waited… then most people were gone, and I decided to get a little closer to where the bags were coming out.  Second from the end there was green monster, but no baggage. Sad.  I went to the baggage claim and after a while we got it figured out, except that I did not have an address for the university- duh jen!! The woman gave me a paper with the telephone number and my code so they would know who I was and told me to call them when I knew for sure.  I then went out to the maid portion of the airport to look for my ride.  He was there with a sign that said JENNIFER BIRDSALL printed on copy paper.  He called the university and had me speak to someone to tell them why it had taken me so long, and I explained the issue with my baggage and he said they would help when I got here.  Although he does not speak English,  it was an enjoyable ride and I think we did a good job making conversation.

When we pulled up at SEE-U (South East European University) I was greeted by my flat mate who works for the Rector.  She took me from there, we went to our room and left my things.  She offered me the opportunity to shower and rest, but I really just wanted to keep moving at that point and get some things figured out.  I went back with her and met several people at the Administration building including the Rector. She then called the dean of the faculty I will be working with and he came to meet me.  He immediately got his assistant to call the airport about my bags.  I met several more individuals in the Language center administrators and teachers alike.  They were all very welcoming and warm!  He then showed to me my office area which will be very helpful to have access to as the semester progresses. The dean also logged me into a computer so I could email to let the family know I was home safe.  By then it was 4pm and the work day was over. I headed back to my room and started to do a bit of unpacking just to get situated.  I made my first and I hope last electricity error, I wanted to plug in my alarm clock so that I could set an alarm to wake up.  I neglected to put the volt converter into the plug converter. It worked when I first plugged it in but it soon quit. I attempted to put batteries into it and there was nothing. I am not going to throw it out just yet, but I am afraid I may have ruined it!  As long as this is my only mistake I am pretty good, now I just need to make sure that it stays that way!  I then took a much, needed shower and then went to bed.  I slept through most of the night, waking up a few times, looking at my nook for the time and doing the math to figure out how what time it is here in Macedonia. But I really did sleep pretty well.





Lesson: This day was so jammed pack with lessons I must sleep! Pay special attention to the airport lessons I learned if you are planning on international travel!!

Wow- its here

So tomorrow morning it is!  After a year of applying, waiting, finding out, waiting, planning and it's here.  I have the greatest friends and family! The surprise party Friday was amazing thanks to each of you who had a hand in making it happen.  Although saying goodbye, or see you soon is hard, I know it is only ten months but its hard.  I am so looking forward to this next chapter in my life.  The blessings in my life are many and I won't ever forget that!

Flight leaves Lincoln at 5:45am tomorrow, then Chicago, Philadelphia, and Dulles in DC.  In DC it on to Austrian Air where I will fly to Vienna and then Skopje, Macedonia arriving at 11:30am, Macedonian time, 4:30am Lincoln time.  Good thing flying is not something that scares me :)

I will post again when I figure out internet in my new home.....   Tetovo, here I come!

Packing... not my favorite activity

      Well thanks for any postive thoughts you might have passed my way for everything to fit! It worked :)  Unfortunately there is a however.... First let me say that if packing is a learned activity my parents did VERY good!  I purchased these really cool bags that you roll the air out of so that more can fit in your bag- great investment if space is a problem.  When planing for this day of packing I thought that space would be my problem, I mean I am not a high maintenance girl, but I like being prepared!   The picture below shows a pile of clothing on my bed and then what that pile looks like in the airless bags- pretty amazing!

BEFORE
                                                                                                    AFTER

But here is the problem- My wonderful packing made my one suitcase over 65 lbs and that was before I had used the extenders or had to get too creative- good thing I weighted it before I continued! I needed to take out 15 lbs. It was quite a disappointing moment!!!!  I became suddenly discouraged. I still had about 1/3 of my clothes to fit in and all of my toiletries- what is a girl to do???  Getting creative was my only option!  As of right now (since I stopped to watch some football), I have one suitcase down to 49 lbs and the other is still at 51.5 lbs.   Pretty good for where I was earlier today.  But I am going to work on that after Packers/Saints and Okie St/Arizona have it out on their respective fields :)

I do have to brag just a bit! With the help of my sister my carry on (that is of legal dimensions) weighs 32 lbs!  It contains: 8 tank tops, 2 skirts, 2 capris, 3 dresses, 2 jackets, 2 t-shirts, 2 pairs of shorts, two pairs of shoes, all of my scarves and head scarves, a make-up bag, a hat, my new sheet set, my earrings and necklaces, a pair of boots, an alarm clock/iPod charger, and box of adapters.  If only the big ones didn't have weight limits think what I could have done!!

Tonight's meal was The Isles Pub & Pizza, another Lincoln tradition.  Their Leaning Tower of Pizza is not matched by any other. So tasty.... take a look for yourself.
 




I decided I am going to share a lesson I have learned each day I post.... here is today's lesson:

Lesson learned today:  If you have small suitcases, or if space is your issue (NOT WEIGHT), then the airless bags are a GREAT investment.  However, if weight is the problem- your only choice is to start unpacking!

4 days, 5 nights...


oh man... down to one hand!!

I started "seriously packing" today. I think Archie (my dog) knows something is up.  He is starting to have the stereo typical puppy dog eyes.  I sure am going to miss my little guy!   Now I should explain what "seriously packing" means to me... its means making piles of what I am taking, and moving the clothes I am not taking into storage. Still nothing into bags :)   Do you think I will get it all to fit?


I did not get a chance to post my experiences on Monday... It was a great day with Mom, Dad and Cass (my sis).  We went to lunch at Lee's Chicken YUMMY! and then ice cream across the street at the little ice cream shop.



It was fun to hear about mom and dad's memories of the area from their high school days (for dad) and college days (for both). We then proceeded to Pioneers Park.  It sure is a beautiful place. I made sure to take some pictures to share with whoever wants to see them in Macedonia. I can't take all the credit though, Cass helped take some of the shots!




Tonight was the last Hu Hot meal... one of my favorites :)  Bo, Cass, Jory, Grif and I went together. This was the last time I will see my god son Grif before I depart- so a few tears were shed... on my part not his, he just thought it was another day. He did say lots of wonderful goodbyes, and blew lots of special kisses.





Tomorrow will be the last minute shopping items and possibility getting some of these piles into my suitcases. It sure is difficult to pack with 4 days left... I still need clothes to wear!!! 

positive thoughts that it all fits.........

7 days and 8 nights...

Single digits!!!!

I guess this means its time to actually start packing.  I have been thinking about the packing part, and keep putting it off because I am afraid of how I am going to decide what NOT to take when it doesn't all fit!  I feel I am a pretty good packer- my only worry is the 50 lbs weight limit :)

I received a few more visitors guides/maps; New Mexico and Aspen/Snowmass have joined the list- Thanks to them as well!!

This weekend brought the first HUSKER GAME!!!  It was great to tailgate and feel the nostalgia of a college football game day!  For those of you thinking, how will Jen survive without college football???? Don't worry I have it under control, I have emailed the Big10 network and they have shared with me how to watch live games online as well as recorded games later- all is good on the football front!



Today also brought a midget football game!  Although the Elks lost to Runza, I was very proud of my "little bro" and his awesome defensive tackling!  The Elks held the offense of Runza to only 8 points! Proud moment!!!!



We then headed out to the farm to be with Gramma and Grandpa T.  We also took Valentino's pizza... a Lincoln stable!  This "see ya soon" brought a tear to my eye, but it was wonderful getting to spend the evening on the farm reminiscing about some of our greatest memories out there!  Love you Gramma and Grandpa!